SAGINAW — As a fan of the University of Michigan’s sports teams and a trumpet player in Saginaw High School’s “Mighty Marchin’ Trojan Band,” Raymond Bady figures Tuesday night’s Sugar Bowl game in new Orleans will be extra sweet.

For one thing, Bady, 15, is one of 58 Saginaw High band members scheduled to perform with 11 other high school bands on the field at halftime of the football game in the Mercedes-Benz Superdome.

Secondly, Bady’s favorite Michigan Wolverines are playing in the game against the Virginia Tech University Hokies. Band Director Jeannine “J.C.” Coughlin doesn’t give a toot about Michigan, being a Michigan State fan, Bady said.

“I tease her. she don’t like Michigan,” said Bady, son of Raymond and Yvonne Bady of Saginaw.

Coughlin concedes that Wolverine fans in her band have been blowing their own horns lately.

“The Michigan fans are all excited, and there’s been a little ribbing because I’m MSU all the way,” said Coughlin, whose band will join with other bands to perform rhythm-and-blues singer Chris Brown’s “Yeah 3x” at halftime.

Regardless of how the Wolverines fare on the gridiron, the Trojans hope to claim a victory of their own in a Jan. 1 Field Show competition against other bands. Saginaw High’s marching band performed at the 2008 Sugar Bowl in new Orleans, too.

Bady’s brother, Jordan, played trumpet with the Saginaw High band at the 2008 bowl game. So did tenor drum player Dorran Burns, son of Dan and Kathy Burns of Saginaw and brother of current Saginaw High tuba player Zacherie Burns, who is new Orleans-bound.

“my brother said he had a great time,” said Zacherie Burns, 17. “It was fantastic just to see different bands and music, and to learn what they do. our family has a passion for music, and we just enjoy experiencing different musical styles.”

This year, the band will perform at street shows — one at a gazebo overlooking the Mississippi River and the other at Jackson Square, a historic park in the French Quarter — in addition to its appearance during the football game.

Students also will tour a plantation featuring historical re-enactors before coming home.

“The trip, I’m hoping, will be very educational for our kids,” Coughlin said.

Band members have been working since October 2010 to raise money to help finance their six-day journey in two motorcoaches.

“we did car washes, sold wristbands and asked for donations,” Willis said.

Drum Major DeQuavious Saunders, 18, son of Tania Baston of Saginaw, figures the trip will pay off by culturally enlightening students. Saunders said he looks forward to visiting the city known for its Mardi Gras celebrations.

“I’ve never been to new Orleans … so this is a great opportunity for us to experience other things beyond Saginaw,” Saunders said.

On the bus ride south, Coughlin could conduct a game of trivia for her students who are Michigan fans. The last time the Wolverines beat the Spartans in football was in 2007.

“When I see (Michigan fans) the Monday after the Michigan-MSU game, it’s been terrible for them for four years now,” Coughlin said.

Saginaw High’s ‘Mighty Marchin’ Trojan Band’ to perform during halftime of the Sugar Bowl

Holding Out for a Hero

by on January 4, 2012

As I gazed across the crowded 2012 GOP presidential field, I was left wondering where have all the good men (or women) gone? Sure, they all have great strengths and would be much better than our current Commander in Chief. Yet, none of the candidates really struck me as being the guy (or girl). I hoped that if Chris Christie jumped into the race he could breathe life into the presidential pool, but I’ve recently realized the error in that judgment. It’s easy to believe that once we elect the right politician, all of our problems will be solved. Mitt Romeny, Rick Perry, Herman Cain, or another candidate will come riding in on a white horse to pull our nation back from the brink. However, that’s the same mentality that got us into the fix we are in now. A majority of Americans bought into Barack Obama’s promised of hope and change and propelled an inexperienced community organizer and brief Senator into the most powerful office in the world. Look where that decision got us. We put our faith into the wrong person. or more actually, we put all of our faith in one person.

Our nation’s salvation does not lie in the hands of Barack Obama. or in the hands of Rick Perry or Mitt Romney for that matter. Humans are fallible and inclined to error by nature, so to put all our trust in a single man, woman, or political party is ignorant at best. The answer to our nation’s woes lies in our faith in God and our faith in one another. Sure, a politician who embodies the faith our nation was built upon will assist in bringing us back from the brink of destruction, but they must be backed by a nation of value-oriented, motivated, and hard working citizens. The revivalism promoted by the Tea Party touches on such an ideological shift and cultural revolution. to truly save this nation, we don’t need a Superman. Positive change begins in the hearts of individual and then spreads to families, communities, states, and finally the nation like wildfire.

When it comes to the 2012 GOP field, I’m not holding out for a hero. Change occurs from the bottom up, and is not solely in the hands of one political candidate. to set our nation back upon a positive course, we must first look at ourselves. too long have American values of faith and fidelity gone down the tubes. We must first change our hearts before we change our nation and that takes time. A single election alone is not capable of completely shifting our nation’s hearts and minds. We cannot hold out for a savior among a group of infighting politicians. We must first find the hero within ourselves and spread that faith to our families, friends, and nation.

Rick Santorum and Mitt Romney waged a seesaw battle for supremacy in Iowa’s Republican presidential caucuses Tuesday night, the opening round of a campaign to pick a challenger to President Barack Obama. Texas Rep. Ron Paul was running a close third.

Returns from nearly 90 percent of the state’s 1,774 precincts showed Santorum, a former Pennsylvania senator, and Romney, former governor of Massachusetts, separated by just 19 votes. it was a fitting conclusion to a race as jumbled as any since Iowa gained the lead-off position in presidential campaigns four decades ago.

The winner was in line for bragging rights — and perhaps much more — as the Republican nominating campaign makes the turn to primaries in New Hampshire on Jan. 10, then South Carolina and Florida before the end of January. for some of the also-rans, history suggested the first event of the year might also be the last.

Each of the three in the top tier strove to create a distinct identity and brought a different style to the race.

Santorum, the former Pennsylvania senator, ran the old-fashioned way, spending parts or all of 250 days campaigning in the state in hopes of emerging aeuro” as he did in the campaign’s final week aeuro” as the preferred conservative alternative to Romney.

Romney, the former Massachusetts governor, brought organization and money to the table, and was aided by deep-pocketed allies who ran television commercials attacking former House Speaker Newt Gingrich and others. that allowed Romney to take the high road in person, running as a former businessman who knew how to create jobs and defeat Obama.

Paul, the Texas congressman, was something of a blend of the two approaches, with money and organization. he drew on the support of younger caucus-goers with a libertarian-leaning approach that included a call to legalize marijuana and bring home U.S. troops from overseas.

Whichever among the three eventually finished ahead, it appeared likely the winner’s share of the vote would be a record low for GOP caucuses in the state. former Sen. Bob Dole had 26.3 percent support in 1996, when he won.

This time, the economy and the federal budget deficit were top issues, judged more important than abortion or health care, according to a survey of early caucus-goers.

Nearly a third of those surveyed said they most wanted a candidate who could defeat Obama, and those favored Romney as a group. Paul and Santorum split the votes of the one in four who called the selection of a true conservative their top priority, and the former Pennsylvania senator also made a strong showing among those who said their top priority was a candidate with a strong moral character as well as among late deciders.

Paul had an edge among younger and first-time caucus goers.

The survey by Edison Media Research for The associated Press and television networks was based on interviews with 1,737 people arriving at 40 precinct caucuses across the state.

Returns from 1,567 of 1,774 precincts showed both Santorum and Romney with 24.6 percent of the votes, Paul with 21.1 percent. Santorum had 26,608 votes, Romney 26,589 and Paul 22,850.

Former House Speaker Newt Gingrich had 13 percent, followed by Texas Gov. Rick Perry, 10 percent, and Minnesota Rep. Michele Bachmann with 5 percent.

Obama was unopposed for the Democratic nomination. even so, his re-election campaign set up eight offices across Iowa, made hundreds of thousands of calls to voters and arranged a video conference with caucus night supporters.

“This time out is going to be in some ways more important than the first time,” the president told Democrats across the state. “Change is never easy.”

The Iowa caucuses’ outsized importance was underscored by the estimated $13 million in television advertising by the candidates and so-called super PACs as well as thousands of campaign stops designed to sway 100,000 or so voters.

Ironically, the weak economy that has made Obama appear vulnerable nationally was muted as an issue here. Despite areas of economic distress, the farm economy is strong. Iowa’s unemployment in November was 5.7 percent, sixth lowest in the country and well below the national reading of 8.6 percent.

Despite its importance as the lead-off state, Iowa has a decidedly uneven record when it comes to predicting national winners. it sent Obama on his way in 2008, but eventual Republican nominee John McCain finished a distant fourth here to former Arkansas Gov. Mike Huckabee.

Even before Tuesday night’s results were known, this year’s Republican hopefuls were turning their attention to the next contests. Romney’s campaign purchased time to run television ads in Florida, where balloting is three weeks distant, while Perry put down money in South Carolina.

Aides said the Gingrich campaign had purchased a full-page newspaper ad in New Hampshire for Wednesday morning calling Romney a “Timid Massachusetts Moderate.”

Romney, who finished second in Iowa in 2008 despite a costly effort, initially campaigned cautiously this time around.

But he barnstormed extensively across the state in the race’s final days in pursuit of a first-place finish, running as a conservative businessman with the skills to fix the economy and as the challenger with the best chance to defeat Obama.

Santorum, Gingrich, Perry and Bachmann argued that Romney wasn’t nearly conservative enough on the economy and social issues such as abortion. they vied for months to emerge as the alternative to the former Massachusetts governor.

Paul’s libertarian-leaning views set him apart, and he hoped that might be enough to claim victory in a six-way race where no one broke away from the pack.

Unlike in a primary, in which voting occurs over hours, the 809 Iowa caucuses were meetings in which Republicans gathered for an evening of politics. Each presidential candidate was entitled to have a supporter deliver a speech on his or her behalf before straw ballots were taken.

Under party rules, caucus results have no control over the allocation of Iowa’s 25 delegates to the Republican National Convention. The associated Press uses the caucus outcome to calculate the number each candidate would win if his support remained unchanged in the pre-convention months.

The race in Iowa came to be defined by its unpredictability as the months rolled by and nationally televised candidate debates piled up.

Bachmann gained early momentum on the strength of a victory in a summertime straw poll and a feisty debate performance.

But she quickly faltered when Perry joined the race and overshadowed her as the 10-year governor of Texas with deep-pocketed supporters and an unbroken record of electoral success at home.

Perry’s rise lasted only as long as a couple of debates aeuro” including one where he memorably was unable to recall the third of three federal agencies he wanted to abolish.

Next up was Herman Cain, a black former businessman who improbably shot to the top of the polls in a party that draws its support chiefly from white voters. he suspended his candidacy a few weeks later, after a woman said she and he had carried on a long-term extra-marital affair.

Gingrich rode the next surge in the polls, a remarkable comeback for a man whose campaign had imploded earlier in 2011 when most of his aides quit in frustration. But his rise lasted only until a super PAC that supports Romney began attacking him on television.

Enter Paul, and Santorum, both campaigning widely across the state and hoping to have the last say.

Democrats watched carefully in a state that has swung between the two parties in recent presidential elections.

It was Iowa that launched Obama on the way to the White House four years ago when he won a convincing victory in the caucuses.

The state’s lead-off spot has been a fixture for decades. Democrats moved the caucuses up to early January in 1972, and Republicans followed suit four years later.

David Espo and Thomas Beaumont of The associated Press wrote this report. Espo reported from Washington.

Carr and his fellow 2011 Hall of Fame inductees will be honored prior to Michigan and Virginia Tech’s 8:30 p.m. kickoff at the Superdome in new Orleans. the 2011 class was inducted into the Hall of Fame on Dec. 6.

The inductees will take part in pregame festivities, which will include an on-field introduction prior to kick. In addition, the hall of famers will partake in a variety of activities throughout new Orleans leading up to the game.

Carr won Michigan’s lone BCS bowl when a Tom Brady-led Wolverine squad was able to grab a 35-34 overtime win over Alabama in the 2000 Orange Bowl.

Nick Baumgardner covers Michigan sports for AnnArbor.com. he can be reached at 734-623-2514, by email at nickbaumgardner@annarbor.com and followed on Twitter @nickbaumgardner.

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New Lewan puts team first

by on January 4, 2012

ANN ARBOR, Mich. — Heading into the Allstate Sugar Bowl, redshirt sophomore offensive tackle Taylor Lewan looks nearly the same as he did a year ago. But the 2011 Lewan isn’t the same player.

Last season it was his tattoos and personality that got him his reputation. And by season’s end, he was known more for his funny-man persona than for what he had done for the Michigan offense.

If his play was brought up, it was about how he had been a liability on the offensive line, how his play before and after the whistle outshone everything else.

As a redshirt freshman, he had played selfishly. He has no problem admitting that now. He let down his team. He let down the Michigan football program. He feels like he let down Ann Arbor.

But he grew up.

In 2011, he took a backseat to the team. He still makes jokes. His wit is still quick. The tattoos are still there.

But it’s not the same Lewan.

Seated, his 6-foot-8, 302-pound body seems less imposing than it has been on the field, though his shoulders and arms appear to overflow from his black T-shirt.

Lewan rotates his right arm, pointing out one of his most recent tattoos: The Tree of Life. it stretches from his right hand up to near his elbow. He says it represents everything he wants to be as both a person and player — sturdy and grounded, tough yet transitional.

“Gosh, I sound like such a hippie right now,” he says as he laughs at himself.

“But really,” he continues, “you have things in your life that will happen to you, but if you keep moving on, keep growing, that’s the biggest thing. keep turning yourself into who you want to become.”

And it’s exactly what he has done this season — turned himself from the brash, in-your-face liability on the offensive line into one of the top tackles in the country.

His first interviews with the media during his redshirt freshman year included stories of how he had pushed players all the way off the field during high school games because he didn’t know it was a penalty. He jested with his teammates and joked with writers, admitted that he loved the attention.

During one interview he held his right index finger, adorned with a curled mustache tattoo and said, “It’s the best icebreaker in the world. … ‘Miss, let’s be serious, I just want to dance.’ “

Before anyone had seen him play a snap, everyone knew he was funny.

Not long after, he got his first personal foul — 15 yards.

A few games later there was another personal foul and two false starts — 23 yards.

Against Illinois — a false start and holding. Against Purdue — 15 yards for clipping.

The funnyman was becoming not so funny. His play was becoming a liability.

Some people saw it differently. His mother, Kelly, would sit in the crowds and hear fans talk about how passionate and in-the-moment her son played. she could see the passion, but she also saw the hits he took during and after plays. she saw the hits junior quarterback Denard Robinson took when Lewan or the offensive line let someone slip through.

She would wince as the helmets crashed and want to know after the games how each player was doing.

“If moms were coaches, they’d never win games,” Kelly Lewan joked. “But I saw that he needed to curb it.”

She wasn’t the only one.

When Michigan coach Brady Hoke arrived on campus, he had meetings with each player. most lasted about 15 minutes. Lewan’s lasted more than an hour. The first week Hoke was on the job, Lewan was in his office at least once every day.

Hoke laid it out: if Lewan played like he had the season before … he wouldn’t play.

“Taylor’s mindset was all about Taylor. how quickly could Taylor start? how quickly could Taylor be an All-American?” his father, Dave, said. “Coach Hoke was letting Taylor know, ‘There have been great players that have worn no. 77, and there are going to many more great player that wear no. 77 again. Michigan football is big, the tradition is big, the legacy is important.’ “

Jake Long, Jon Jansen — former Michigan left tackles — those guys had played for their teams.

The first time Lewan met Long, Long told him, “You better do something with that number.” Lewan knew he hadn’t.

He knew he had played selfishly. He described his own play as a mix between blazing guns and irresponsible intensity. Lewan had let his team down and promised Hoke he wouldn’t let that happen again.

“I want this team to be successful,” Lewan said. “I want all the offensive linemen who’ve ever worn no. 77, all the linemen that have ever played here to look at Michigan now and say, ‘That left tackle is doing his job and I’m proud.’ “

It was a gradual process. Lewan made it through the first seven games of the 2011 season without any personal fouls or penalties. He was so impressive after the Northwestern game that defensive coordinator Greg Mattison pulled his parents aside after the game to talk about Lewan’s football future.

A year ago he was amusing. now, he was promising. People saw Lewan as having a possible future in the NFL.

“At the end of the day, it’s about being a smarter player,” Lewan said. “I can throw out any clich

after being turned down by the last bachlorette Ashley Hebert, Ben Flajnik, met 25 smitten ladies ready to call him her’s.Flajnik, 28, was calm as he met each of the ladies, even when some stumbled on their words when their rehearsed introductions failed.“The Bachelor” premiered last night on ABC and again, host Chris Harrison was present to help the next budding romantic find their true love in front of millions. Flajnik is from San Francisco, and is a winemaker and owner of Envolve Wines. The bachelor, known for his locks, even has a Twitter account for his hair.he gave his first impression rose to Lindzi, 26, from Seattle who rode in on a horse in a black gown. he offered to help her of the horse, which he did…that was their first moment, of many, it seems, that will come.Courtney, 28, a model from Santa Monica, seems like she’s going to be the bitchy girl that seduces the pants off of Flajnik. And the signs are there. after he met her and she walked away, he said, “That’s a pretty girl.”And then there was Jenna, 27, from New York City. she was the crier of the bunch. The poor girl had a meltdown and was already talking about how she couldn’t handle it. Nevertheless, she was offered a rose and she indeed snatched it.Meet the rest of the girls here, by USA Today writer Ann Oldenburg.

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That echoed Hoke’s proclamation when he first arrived in new Orleans. “I think this is where Michigan should be,” he said from an airport hangar, barely 10 minutes after landing here. “It’s an expectation for Michigan to be in BCS games.” Michigan quarterback Denard Robinson runs during a practice at Tulane University earlier this week.AP Photo The Wolverines will be looking to reverse their bowl fortunes, after going 2-6 in their past eight postseason appearances. They are 1-3 all-time in BCS games, with their lone win coming against Alabama in the 2000 Orange Bowl. Hoke was on that staff as an assistant. It’s been a tough postseason run for college football’s winningest program. In fact, the Wolverines have a losing record all-time in bowl games, going 19-21 in their 40 appearances. and, of course, they’ve had a tough run even in the regular season of late. Michigan was 15-22 during a tumultuous three-year run under former coach Rich Rodriguez, a tenure that was terminated just days after last season’s 52-14 loss to Mississippi State in the Gator Bowl. Players are looking to rid themselves of that history — especially the seniors, whose legacies include no league titles and a combined 1-7 record against the school’s two biggest rivals, Michigan State and Ohio State. it also would be a fitting end to a resurgent season, validating what has been a surge back into prominence. most prominently, the defense jumped from posting the worst season in school history last year to ranking seventh this season at 17.2 points allowed per game “The biggest thing for us is if we drop this game, and we have a poor performance, especially defensively, (after) everything we’ve worked for, people will come back and say, ‘well, they were good during the season, but look what happened in the bowl game,” senior defensive lineman Ryan Van Bergen said. “it could be a ‘but,’ or it could be an ‘and.’ then they could say, ‘They played well during the season and they went and played well in the bowl game.’ “we don’t want there to be a negative stigma about our defense, when all is said and done. we want everything to be positive and not have anybody stand on a platform and criticize us.” Michigan hasn’t played since beating Ohio State 40-34 on Nov. 26, and feels as though it has something to prove. Managing nerves will become paramount, especially early in the game as the team shakes off rust from the five-week layover. Quarterback Denard Robinson will be of particular concern because he is so integral to the offense’s effectiveness, but also has been known to have trouble managing his excitement early in games. he became much better throughout this year, though, relying on a secret weapon he revealed for the first time Sunday: R&B. “I listen to slower music now in the pregame,” Robinson said. “it calms me down.” Hoke isn’t as much of a concern. He’s said in the past he’s most anxious on the days leading up to a game, when preparation is at its peak intensity. On game days, he’s much more relaxed as he designates scheme and play calls to his coordinators and players. “once it hits the game, it’s just, you might as well give him a cocktail and a lounge chair,” senior center David Molk said recently. despite the magnitude and build-up to this game, Hoke said Monday he expected to remain calm today, even if a few extra butterflies would be understandable. “It’s going to be fun,” Hoke said. “It’s going to be a lot of people cheering and it’s going to be bands there and people are going to have fun.” Hoke said he’ll use a similar routine today for keeping his players sharp as he did for previous night games against Notre Dame and Northwestern, when he got them up late, had them watch film and went through walk-throughs to remain active. The Wolverines won both those games. In fact, they were 4-0 this year in games that started at 3:30 p.m. EST or later. So, that routine — something Hoke developed while often playing at night out west at San Diego State — seems to be effective for this team. Something they haven’t faced this year, though, is playing indoors, and now they will play in the Superdome, known as one of the loudest stadiums in the country. “In a game, you kind of get into the flow of loud when the defense is on the field, quiet when the offense is on the field,” Van Bergen said. “This game, I don’t really know. I think it’s going to be more World Cup, without those big horns. It’s going to be loud all the time.” Van Bergen said the defense will resort to hand signals in the game. other games in which they used those signals include Notre Dame, Ohio State and Nebraska — each wins, although the defense played poorly against the Fighting Irish and Buckeyes. The lighting, which stretches all the way around the stadium, also could be of concern. Hoke said he’s not worried about the environment, even though Virginia Tech’s Frank Beamer has coached in the Superdome in three BCS games and four times overall. He’s 1-3 there. The Hokes’ head coach is in the midst of a 25-year run at the school, and has taken it to 19 consecutive bowl games. He’s been with defensive coordinator Bud Foster for 24 years. Conversely, Michigan’s staff is in its first year together, an experience differential that could prove to be a disadvantage, Wolverines offensive coordinator Al Borges said this week. Molk, though, says the staff is wise beyond its years because Hoke hired like-minded guys in Borges and defensive coordinator Greg Mattison, among others. “This coaching staff could easily be compared to one that has been here 30-plus years (because of) the congruency of a fixed goal and something they all stress together as a unit,” Molk said. “a lot of times, when coaches coach together for a really long time, they all think alike. well, these guys do.” They all have one thing on their mind tonight. Sugar Bowl victory. a season validated. Kyle Meinke covers Michigan football for AnnArbor.com. he can be reached at 734-623-2588, by email at and followed on Twitter @kmeinke.

Amazing Meteor Shower Peaks Jan. 4

by on January 3, 2012

The Quandrantids are named after an extinct constellation and Jan. 4 is the only time to see them. It's a one night only event. Like the Geminids, the Quadrantids originate from an asteroid, called 2003 EH1. Studies show this body could very well be a piece of a comet which broke apart several centuries ago, and that the meteors you will see before dawn on Jan. 4 are the small debris from this brake-up. After hundreds of years orbiting the sun, they will enter our atmosphere at 90,000 mph, burning up 50 miles above Earth's surface. Named after the constellation Quadrans Muralis (mural quadrant), the meteor shower was first seen in 1825. the constellation itself was named after French astronomer Jerome Lalande and is located between the constellations Bootes and Draco. Astronomers do not recognize this constellation anymore, but the name Quadrans does represent an early astronomical instrument used to watch and track stars.

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Because of the location of the constellation, only northern hemisphere watchers will be able to see the shower. Meteor showers occur when Earth travels through leftover debris from comets or asteroids. they are often known as “shooting stars,” because of the way they streak across the sky. A waxing gibbous moon will set at around 3 a.m. local time, so as long as there are clear skies, conditions should be good for meteor watching into pre-dawn hours.  

…(Armisen and Brownstein) struck a chord with Seattle, explaining in part the city’s fascination with “Portlandia.” The tongue-in-cheek look at Portland’s slacker culture and reputation for “keeping weird” resonates with Seattleites — possibly because we used to be a lot like that, too.

That was before everyone worked for Microsoft and Amazon, before Starbucks was a household name, before the so-called “Seattle Sound” went the way of Nirvana and Soundgarden.

Oh, the good old days. Remember when Seattle was the oddball of the West Coast? When we had Doc Martens and bad attitudes and served as the setting for counter-culture movies? back when Kurt Cobain was a god and Eddie Vedder (more on him later) still went shirtless – remember all of that?

…Portland, on the other hand, is still in its glorious youth, like a younger sister who doesn’t need a job or a 401(k) or an apartment with functional plumbing.

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The most persuasive speech can often be one that introduces an idea that is initially so shocking that we welcome middle ground as a desirable alternative.

An excellent example is the women’s movement in the 1960′s. some of the more outspoken activists became very strident in their rhetoric. as a result, the movement became very polarizing.

Gloria Steinem came to the forefront with a fairly moderate approach. and most importantly, she was likable.

People were so relieved that she now represented the women’s movement that they not only welcomed her, their attitudes had shifted-toward the women’s movement. Only a few of the stalwarts reverted back to their original position. they had seen what a zealot looked like, and they didn’t like it. Gloria, however, was someone they could live with-she moved people in her direction. in other words, she persuaded them.

What was Gloria’s powerful tool?

Inoculations get the attention of our body’s immune system by introducing a small dose of the disease. This jolts the body into action and antibodies are produced to protect us against further infection. in the same way, an extreme suggestion can introduce an idea that initially jolts us out of our complacency or established way of thinking. the result is that our attitude is shifted when we welcome a compromise as a desirable alternative.

This is a technique used with great success by retailers, ex-spouses, and terrorists.

This letter is a perfect example of how extreme suggestions can work in the way we go about changing people’s minds:

Dear Mom and Dad,

Since I left for college, many things have happened. I apologize for not writing sooner, but you’ve been in my thoughts. please, do not cry until you’ve read my entire letter but you had better prepare yourself by sitting down.

First, my jail sentence went by faster than I expected. the food wasn’t that bad, really, and I felt lucky that I lost only 50 pounds. Being female, I didn’t know what to expect but my cellmate was a businesswoman named Sugar and she’s offered me a regular job with her escort service. she assures me that I’ll be escorting very nice gentlemen to innocent parties and not to worry about the nasty rumors. I’m not sure what she means, but she says she’s got a great lawyer.

While in jail I met the man of my dreams. He’s out on parole now and we’ve found a wonderful little cubbyhole under the Golden Gate Bridge to live in until he finds a proper job. He’s an enterprising young man and I know you’ll like him. for example, he’s up and going through the trash bins before anyone else in the area Yes, I’m homeless right now and although my boyfriend thinks I should take up Sugar’s offer on employment, I’m worried that my pregnancy will not make me a desirable escort.

Yes, I’m going to have a baby and as soon as my boyfriend’s infection clears up, we’ll get our blood tests and have a real wedding. I know you’ll welcome him with open arms and perhaps even help him find a job. You should also know that he never graduated from high school, but he has high ambitions.

Now that you have all the news worth telling, I want to tell you that I didn’t get arrested, I didn’t lose 50 pounds, I’m not thinking of going to work for Sugar, I didn’t meet a boyfriend in jail, I’m not homeless, and I’m not pregnant. I am, however, getting a D in economics, which wouldn’t be so bad but it is, unfortunately, my major. I wanted you to see this in proper perspective.

Your loving daughter,

Lori

Yes, there are times when the middle ground can seem like a gift from heaven.